An anonymous advice column for people who already know the truth—they just hate hearing it.

I don’t know how to be close to people without managing how they see me.

I notice that even with people I’m close to, I edit myself. I stay agreeable, I keep it light, I say the thing that feels easiest to hear. I don’t lie, but I definitely don’t show the whole picture. I think I’m afraid that if I

Everything in my life is technically fine, but I feel like I’m holding my breath all the time.

I can’t point to anything that’s really wrong right now. My job is fine, my relationship is fine, my routine is… whatever. But I still feel like I’m bracing for something. It’s like I’m holding my breath through my own life. Is this just what

People keep calling me “low maintenance.” It doesn’t feel like a compliment.

People always describe me as “low maintenance.” Like it’s this badge of honor. I know they mean it as a compliment, but it honestly makes me feel invisible. I don’t speak up a lot. I go along with things. I try not to make anything a big deal.

I keep saying I’ll rest when things slow down. They never do.

You keep saying you’ll rest later. But later keeps getting rescheduled.